What Resistance Teaches Us

May 21, 2021 5 Comments

A row of five glass jars with purple lilacs in them. The jars are sitting on a while marble counter.

It’s hard to believe that at 47 years old. I’m still learning so much about life and myself.

My latest lesson about resistance is a biggie as its one that has been present for as long as I can remember. We all know that feeling that we get in the pit of our stomach…..when we want to or need to do something and yet we simply cannot bring ourself to do it.

I had recently hit a resistance wall on something that I needed to do to, yet week and week, I would transfer this item to my to-do list.

After two months, I was getting so frustrated with myself for not doing it. I realized that I needed to dig deeper and try to figure out how one task could make me feel so horrible? 

What I discovered was that resistance is two energies competing against one another. The energy to evolve versus the energy to stay the same.

Well that certainly makes sense and explains why resistance isn’t a warm and fuzzy feeling.

I also realized that I needed to take back control as I didn’t like how I was feeling…it was a downward spiral where I started to beat myself up for resisting the task at hand. Can you relate?

I decided to flip the switch on it and change how I looked at resistance. I decided that when I felt resistance, I was going to look at it as a call to action for me.

I had to make a decision of whether I really wanted or needed to do that activity. If I wanted to get that activity completed, then I needed to rip the banded off and take action.

I was taking back control and telling myself that resistance was simply a call to action.

I’m proud to share that that one task is now completed! And now I laugh at how much anguish I felt for two long months. Thank you for another life lesson universe.





5 Responses

Eric Jones
Eric Jones

June 06, 2021

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Here’s what that means to me…

Your SEO’s working.

You’re getting eyeballs – mine at least.

Your content’s pretty good, wouldn’t change a thing.

BUT…

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CUSTOMERS do.

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It’s like they never were even there.

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Eric Jones
Eric Jones

June 02, 2021

Hi, Eric here with a quick thought about your website nicoledauz.com…

I’m on the internet a lot and I look at a lot of business websites.

Like yours, many of them have great content.

But all too often, they come up short when it comes to engaging and connecting with anyone who visits.

I get it – it’s hard. Studies show 7 out of 10 people who land on a site, abandon it in moments without leaving even a trace. You got the eyeball, but nothing else.

Here’s a solution for you…

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Eric
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You have customers waiting to talk with you right now… don’t keep them waiting.
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Eric Jones
Eric Jones

May 29, 2021

Hi, Eric here with a quick thought about your website nicoledauz.com…

I’m on the internet a lot and I look at a lot of business websites.

Like yours, many of them have great content.

But all too often, they come up short when it comes to engaging and connecting with anyone who visits.

I get it – it’s hard. Studies show 7 out of 10 people who land on a site, abandon it in moments without leaving even a trace. You got the eyeball, but nothing else.

Here’s a solution for you…

Talk With Web Visitor is a software widget that’s works on your site, ready to capture any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. You’ll know immediately they’re interested and you can call them directly to talk with them literally while they’re still on the web looking at your site.

CLICK HERE http://talkwithcustomer.com to try out a Live Demo with Talk With Web Visitor now to see exactly how it works.

It could be huge for your business – and because you’ve got that phone number, with our new SMS Text With Lead feature, you can automatically start a text (SMS) conversation – immediately… and contacting someone in that 5 minute window is 100 times more powerful than reaching out 30 minutes or more later.

Plus, with text messaging you can follow up later with new offers, content links, even just follow up notes to keep the conversation going.

Everything I’ve just described is extremely simple to implement, cost-effective, and profitable.

CLICK HERE http://talkwithcustomer.com to discover what Talk With Web Visitor can do for your business.

You could be converting up to 100X more eyeballs into leads today!

Eric
PS: Talk With Web Visitor offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it even includes International Long Distance Calling.
You have customers waiting to talk with you right now… don’t keep them waiting.
CLICK HERE http://talkwithcustomer.com to try Talk With Web Visitor now.

If you’d like to unsubscribe click here http://talkwithcustomer.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=nicoledauz.com

Eric Jones
Eric Jones

May 25, 2021

Hi, my name is Eric and I’m betting you’d like your website nicoledauz.com to generate more leads.

Here’s how:
Talk With Web Visitor is a software widget that’s works on your site, ready to capture any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It signals you as soon as they say they’re interested – so that you can talk to that lead while they’re still there at nicoledauz.com.

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And now that you’ve got their phone number, our new SMS Text With Lead feature enables you to start a text (SMS) conversation – answer questions, provide more info, and close a deal that way.

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Eric
PS: The studies show 7 out of 10 visitors don’t hang around – you can’t afford to lose them!
Talk With Web Visitor offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it even includes International Long Distance Calling.
You have customers waiting to talk with you right now… don’t keep them waiting.
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If you’d like to unsubscribe click here http://talkwithwebvisitors.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=nicoledauz.com

Eric Jones
Eric Jones

May 23, 2021

Good day,

My name is Eric and unlike a lot of emails you might get, I wanted to instead provide you with a word of encouragement – Congratulations

What for?

Part of my job is to check out websites and the work you’ve done with nicoledauz.com definitely stands out.

It’s clear you took building a website seriously and made a real investment of time and resources into making it top quality.

There is, however, a catch… more accurately, a question…

So when someone like me happens to find your site – maybe at the top of the search results (nice job BTW) or just through a random link, how do you know?

More importantly, how do you make a connection with that person?

Studies show that 7 out of 10 visitors don’t stick around – they’re there one second and then gone with the wind.

Here’s a way to create INSTANT engagement that you may not have known about…

Talk With Web Visitor is a software widget that’s works on your site, ready to capture any visitor’s Name, Email address and Phone Number. It lets you know INSTANTLY that they’re interested – so that you can talk to that lead while they’re literally checking out nicoledauz.com.

CLICK HERE https://talkwithwebvisitors.com to try out a Live Demo with Talk With Web Visitor now to see exactly how it works.

It could be a game-changer for your business – and it gets even better… once you’ve captured their phone number, with our new SMS Text With Lead feature, you can automatically start a text (SMS) conversation – immediately (and there’s literally a 100X difference between contacting someone within 5 minutes versus 30 minutes.)

Plus then, even if you don’t close a deal right away, you can connect later on with text messages for new offers, content links, even just follow up notes to build a relationship.

Everything I’ve just described is simple, easy, and effective.

CLICK HERE https://talkwithwebvisitors.com to discover what Talk With Web Visitor can do for your business.

You could be converting up to 100X more leads today!

Eric
PS: Talk With Web Visitor offers a FREE 14 days trial – and it even includes International Long Distance Calling.
You have customers waiting to talk with you right now… don’t keep them waiting.
CLICK HERE https://talkwithwebvisitors.com to try Talk With Web Visitor now.

If you’d like to unsubscribe click here http://talkwithwebvisitors.com/unsubscribe.aspx?d=nicoledauz.com

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